This Is Not Your Fault: Helping Children Let Go of False Guilt

Hearts of Fire Foundation Few words are more important for a child entering foster care to hear than these: “This is not your fault.” Although those words are simple, many children struggle to believe them. Children often try to make sense of painful experiences by looking for a reason. Because they are still learning howContinue reading “This Is Not Your Fault: Helping Children Let Go of False Guilt”

Helping Children Understand Why They Are in Foster Care: Answering Difficult Questions With Honesty and Compassion

Hearts of Fire Foundation One of the hardest moments for any caregiver, caseworker, counselor, or trusted adult is when a child looks up and asks: “Why am I here?” Other questions often follow: “Did I do something wrong?” “When can I go home?” “Why couldn’t my mom or dad keep me?” “Does my family stillContinue reading “Helping Children Understand Why They Are in Foster Care: Answering Difficult Questions With Honesty and Compassion”

The First Week in Foster Care: Helping Children Adjust to Their New Normal

Hearts of Fire Foundation The first week in foster care is often a time of emotional ups and downs—for both the child and the caregiver. During the first day or two, many children are simply trying to make sense of what has happened. They may be tired, frightened, unusually quiet, or overwhelmed by the manyContinue reading “The First Week in Foster Care: Helping Children Adjust to Their New Normal”